Exactly. I agree. If you love someone you would not cheat on them. You would respect them enough to tell them how you feel and let them have the choice of whether to be with you or not. Cheating is deceptive and can risk the health and well being of the other person. It makes me cringe thinking of some women getting gaslit into thinking a man can love you and still betray your trust. That's not love. Thanks for your writing.