I feel that a lot is at play here. He is entitled to his opinion that you did not want to date him because of his race. That being said, women have the right to date whoever they want and I don't cosign to bullying. This guy sounds like a troll, not a real Black man. That being said, there are disrespectful men in every racial category. However, we live in a nation where white women got Black men hung for kicks. So, it's a sensitive topic for me.

I'm married to a Black man, on purpose, not by coincidence and I don't feel that a white man could, or would reall love me. That guy, who you spoke about seems like a creep. He wanted to force a date on you and that's not right. But, like I said calling you racist is his opinion and I cannot take that away from him or undermine his experience.