Racist and sexist people do not have good intentions; they are wicked. Each and every one promote a society none of us want to live in. Choosing bigotry over equality and inclusivity is morally apprehensible.
You are entitled to your opinion but it does not change the facts. You cannot wish racism and sexism away for fear of a “headache.” That’s weakness.
In the end, we have to promote equality, acceptance, and right the wrongs of society. That’s my aim in all of this and you are entitled to work alongside me or against me. The choice is totally up to you and I hold nothing against you. I hope to open people’s minds, not cause distress.