The white guy I dated in high school thought of me as a fetish as well. We should not be considered attractive in reference but attractive as standalones.

We don't need to be white to be beautiful. It just depends who we date. I am happy you found someone who loves you and respects you. He values you for you. I love your story. Thanks for writing this.

Brown skin is beautiful. Indian women are gorgeous.

Black Womanist — MS Psych 🎓 EIC of Cultured Co-Founder of Writers and Editors of Color WEOC I 🤎 ☕️

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