This is an interesting essay. FYI, folks in the anti-racism world don't view white women as evil, just privileged.
Where it goes kind of astray, for me at least, is this whole idea that people are bashing White cisgendered women and that type of deflection stunts growth. Folks serious about social justice issues are not bashing White women by speaking about their privilege. And while you are a white-passing Jewish woman, Jewish people also experience discrimination, albeit different than Black women and those who can't pass for White experience.
There are mean people of every race and gender identity. This is true. But this statement also ignores the system and minimizes the problem as personal, and not systemic. Your analysis removes power from the equation.
The Columbus Dispatch posted a relevant story about this topic