…being told about us. If you think about it, how would your abuser be benefited by telling the truth? Do you honestly think they would ever admit their wrongdoing in the relationship? Of course not! Because it makes THEM look bad. It makes them the villain. They want to create their own village and find a new victim. They cannot do this by telling the trut…
Well said. When I was in a bad relationship as a young twenty-something girl, my best friend told me "You have to leave him. He will never admit he is abusing you". And you know what-- that was exactly the advice I needed.
You, similar to my friend, are trying to save people from the suffering at the hands of their abusers whether that abuse is physical or verbal. Thank you for writing this article.