Yea well I don't think Dave Chapelle was being selfish. I was born in 1988. Since then, I've seen my rights diminish. We helped to pass legislation to secure equal rights in marriage but the LBGTQ community is stock piled with racists who punch down. Enough is enough.
Being in a marginalized group doesn't make you incapable of causing harm. That's what the LGBTQ community does when they try to cancel someone when they offend gay people but not Black women. Or women in general (Eminem spoke about brutally murdering his mother's child). But folks like you are not trying to cancel him.
No, you are concerned with a Black man calling out a system that is fundamentally flawed, that shows preference towards one community while diminishing another.
There are Black people in the LGBTQ community that are treated worse by members of their own "community." Here's the bottom line. No one is beyond critique. We should be encouraging pride but if talking about our differences brings about shame, it's not the speakers who are the problem, but the listeners.
I'm proud of being a Black woman and I'm unapologetically advocating for my people. I don't expect you to support me, nor do I need a pat on the back. I'm just going to keep doing what I see is right and you should do the same.