You wrote an excellent piece. I’m straight but I completely understood what it was like without having to ask a lesbian. The whole point is that lesbians do not choose to be with a man. It’s really silly to think just because someone wants a strap on they want a man. So I get it and sorry you had that awkward conversation but glad you gained perspectives on how men view women. I feel that you are absolutely correct in your assessment. I don’t watch porn of any kind. I’m an anime nerd so I had no idea about the porn hub map. I was not shocked at the lesbian porn but the step sister porn and step mom porn was unexpected. Thanks for writing this article. It was interesting and also made me feel a sense of sisterhood to women who refuse to be used as men’s sexual playthings.