Your argument of dismissing sexism as something that can be reversed is the same as whacky racists who believe in reverse racism.
Like I said, you think you understand both sides but you really don't. You try to equivicate things that are illogical to do so. Black men are not persecuted for being men, they are persecuted for being Black. It's simple as pie if you actually want to see the true.
Black men who fail to see how dangeorus sexism is, or make light of it, make poor allies to Black women and thus place themselves as unqualified to lead.
Black men, like Malcolm X who understood that Black women are the most disrespected in this nation understand the circumstances clear as day.
So yes, we disagree because to me, your view is misguided but you are entitled to your perspective.